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Title: Which Is Harder? Burying a Bandmate or Girlfriend?
Post by: mc2NY on January 06, 2012, 07:55:21 PM
I have to do both next week.

My guitarist/ex-GF who I played with for almost 20 years and lived with for 15 of those.

She died New Years Eve when she went to play a get-together with old friends...felt ill, laid down and never woke up. Sad. Hell of a guitarist.


http://www.myspace.com/ronnicrooks

http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.3034668832854.2164424.1446931701&type=3
http://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=3048737584564&id=1446931701#!/profile.php?id=1446931701


http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1446931701#!/ronni.crooks

Title: Re: Which Is Harder? Burying a Bandmate or Girlfriend?
Post by: OldManC on January 06, 2012, 08:29:03 PM
Reading your comments on the photos you posted shows how much you felt for her and also how fun she must have been as a person and friend. I'm truly sorry for your loss, Jon.
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Post by: gweimer on January 06, 2012, 08:57:07 PM
...my condolences
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Post by: Dave W on January 06, 2012, 11:16:20 PM
I'm sorry, Jon.
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Post by: TBird1958 on January 06, 2012, 11:58:41 PM


Jon, Sorry for the loss.
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Post by: ilan on January 07, 2012, 01:57:10 AM
That is so sad. Sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Denis on January 07, 2012, 05:20:59 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this, Jon. My condolences to you for your loss.
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Post by: rahock on January 07, 2012, 06:45:58 AM
Sorry for your loss. :sad: Hell of a way to start the new year. Seems like I've heard more bad news to start this year than ever before.
Rick
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Post by: godofthunder on January 07, 2012, 06:52:53 AM
My Deepest condolences Jon.
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Post by: Basvarken on January 07, 2012, 07:48:23 AM
My sincerest condolences Jon
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Post by: Lightyear on January 07, 2012, 09:21:01 AM
So sorry for your loss
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Post by: Pilgrim on January 07, 2012, 09:30:33 AM
Sorry to hear of this - be kind to yourself and be well.
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Post by: Nocturnal on January 07, 2012, 10:26:25 AM
Sorry for your loss Jon.
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Post by: Grog on January 07, 2012, 10:52:10 AM
Sorry......................
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Post by: Psycho Bass Guy on January 07, 2012, 07:30:33 PM
I hate to hear that.  Sincere condolences.
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Post by: ramone57 on January 08, 2012, 07:45:56 AM
sorry for you loss.  it's hard to bury anybody you're close to. 
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Post by: Aussie Mark on January 08, 2012, 03:57:35 PM
Sorry to hear this. 45 is far too young. Condolences
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Post by: Freuds_Cat on January 08, 2012, 06:06:07 PM
I think your subject line says it all. You form bonds with both these people but when they are rolled up into one person,  ....that must make it very hard indeed. Condolences mate.
Title: Re: Which Is Harder? Burying a Bandmate or Girlfriend?
Post by: Rob on January 08, 2012, 07:58:51 PM
Sorry Jon
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Post by: sniper on January 08, 2012, 11:20:17 PM
heart felt condolences
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Post by: Barklessdog on January 09, 2012, 01:09:02 PM
Wow 45, way too young. Sorry.

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Post by: birdie on January 09, 2012, 04:12:26 PM
Very very sad. 45, jeesh..
My heartfelt condolences.
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Post by: mc2NY on January 10, 2012, 06:27:26 AM
Thank you all for the sentiments.

Here is a pic to put it into bass perspective...some of the bassists Ronni jammed and appeared with at NAMM, Frankfurt and other shows. Most were fellow endorsers for companies like Vigier, Dean Markley, etc. but there was a mutual respect by all...and a good idea of the cross-section of styles she could cover.

Ronni DID also play bass on occasion when she got the occasional call. She played everything from clubs gigs to recording sessions, weddings and pickup band work for name acts coming through the NYC tri-state area for 15 years, seven days a week. Even after she joined my band she was still doing multiple gigs on the same days sometimes.

I remember my band was headlining The Ritz in NYC for a TV broadcast and Ronni had an earlier gig an hour east out on Long Island and could not make soundcheck. For years, if she saw that videotape, she was still steamed that the lighting tech marked her place wrong and she had no overhead spotlight and was dark at her vocal mic.

She used to borrow my original '85 Kubicki for bass gigs and the only marks on it are the ones she put there with her studded belt. She was VERY hard on gear...actually backed over her Steinberger with an Olds Delta 88 once and then was miffed that if was out of tune when she tuned up at the gig...hahaha

Anyway.....she'll be missed.

(http://home.earthlink.net/~mc2/images/RonniBassPicWeb.jpg)