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nervous, yet excited father
« on: January 13, 2011, 11:34:22 AM »
Next Sunday my youngest boy (Nick, 12) makes his stage debut in a small club in Raleigh.  Back in December, my oldest son (Chris, 17) asked Nick to sit in for their drummer (who was pretty ill) a day or two before that show, but it got postponed due to a snowstorm. Now they've rescheduled the show to the 23rd of Jan, and the band asked Nick if he'd like to play drums on the first 5 songs of their set. 

The fact that they've recognized that Nick was willing to sit in back in Dec., and they've offered him a slot is pretty cool.  Their drummer is a key member of the band and Nick is a bit unpolished (they practice in our Jam Room, so I can hear the difference between the two on the same songs), but they're overlooking that aspect of it and working the top of their setlist around him. Nick's been taking lessons for a few years and seems unphased about getting on stage and banging away. I wish I had that fearlessness - having never been on stage myself, I can't help but be nervous for him...same as I was the first time Chris stepped up on one a few years back. They're just a High School garage band, but they've been writing their own stuff and taking a few liberties with some contemporary covers.

It should be fun, exciting and nerve-wracking - I see more hair loss on my part.

Steve
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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2011, 11:36:22 AM »
Good luck dad and sons... ;)
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« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2011, 03:27:21 PM »
The proud dad will simultaneously hear every mistake and forgive them with pride!
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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2011, 04:43:07 PM »
Rock It Nick!!!

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« Reply #4 on: January 13, 2011, 06:22:02 PM »
Awesome! Where in Raleigh are they playing?
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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2011, 04:05:17 AM »
Thanks for the support guys. My wife and I are really excited about this.

Hey Denis,  the show is at the Berkeley Cafe' (W. Martin St.) in downtown Raleigh.  The show is being hosted by Afton, and tickets can be purchased online (the kids get a piece of the door if they sell tickets online) - the link is below. The show is 23-Jan-2011 and their band name is "Betwixt".
It would be great to meet you, talk a little bass and motorcycles.

https://tickets.aftonshows.com/cgi-bin/search.pl

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« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2011, 05:01:11 AM »
I'm sure the little drummer boy will do just fine, but I'm worried about his parents!!!

Best for the gig!

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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2011, 05:12:58 AM »
Good luck and enjoy the ride Steve! My young bloke is only 6 so it will be a few years until I get that thrill.
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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2011, 06:12:08 AM »
Thanks for the support guys. My wife and I are really excited about this.

Hey Denis,  the show is at the Berkeley Cafe' (W. Martin St.) in downtown Raleigh.  The show is being hosted by Afton, and tickets can be purchased online (the kids get a piece of the door if they sell tickets online) - the link is below. The show is 23-Jan-2011 and their band name is "Betwixt".
It would be great to meet you, talk a little bass and motorcycles.

https://tickets.aftonshows.com/cgi-bin/search.pl

Steve

Ah, the good old Berkeley! Jason and the Scorchers just played there. I'll try and make that show!
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« Reply #9 on: January 14, 2011, 06:32:36 AM »
Ah, the good old Berkeley! Jason and the Scorchers just played there. I'll try and make that show!

I missed Jason & the Scorchers?!!  Damn. I used to really dig those guys.

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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #10 on: January 14, 2011, 07:19:59 AM »
Break a leg !
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« Reply #11 on: January 14, 2011, 07:21:38 AM »
I missed Jason & the Scorchers?!!  Damn. I used to really dig those guys.

Thanks.

Yeah, man. Last weekend they played two shows in NC, one in Raleigh, the other ing Greensboro. Both were sold out!
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« Reply #12 on: January 14, 2011, 08:02:31 AM »
Break a leg !

Scott, your old Fury is also going to be on stage that night as well.
The original drummer is going to play bass for the first short set, and he loves the Fury.
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« Reply #13 on: January 14, 2011, 09:55:01 AM »
VERY COOL !!!!!!
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Re: nervous, yet excited father
« Reply #14 on: January 14, 2011, 10:04:42 AM »
This is awesome, you are going to have one of those "Proud Moments" that you will remember all your life, Congrats!
Tell the boys to "Break a leg" and have a great time!

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