Alas!, can't I even go to a funeral of a 93-year old auntie? No age to complain about. Her dear husband already left us 60 years ago (motorbike accident), hopefully, the spouses will still recognize each other now.
You do know you're aging when the Catholic priest is young enough to be your son and looks decidedly Indian!
Greek urn? The amount varies, but the thing to know is that gross = net. It's all tax-free.