I thought they were introvert, non-rocking whimps when they came out, but made my peace with them on the last handful of albums, basically AFTER they had peaked commercially. I find Michael Stipe a savior type much like Bono, which grates, but I will forever love him for his Elvis impersonations in Man on the Moon. I played Losing my Religion in a band in a different arrangement - amazing what dual lead lines root/third can do to that song!!!
Their last album wasn't bad either.