Jackson's relationship to children just wasn't "normal", let's put it that way. He had no doubt pedophile leanings - though he probably camouflaged them before himself with his self-perception as a "grown up child" -, but he wasn't a rampaging creep like Jimmy Saville. Again there is a range, not every pedophile rapes infants and has the scene filmed (not that Saville did), but even if MJ cuddled with children only in bed (like he always claimed), he was crossing a line.