The Last Bass Outpost
Main Forums => The Outpost Cafe => Topic started by: Blackbird on June 30, 2013, 06:56:12 PM
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Gang..
Looking for some input...been jamming original stuff with a few guys since last year..November I think. Great guys, but the project never engaged me at any one point in time...I just went thru a three audition process with another band for their bassist...and it's much more up my ally. I've got the gig, and there's a lot of potential with these guys.
I'm hittin 40 this year, and the band I got into has some big potential and material ready to go (and all are very talented....drummer will really push me to be a better player), and really my best shot at hittin a dream.
I'm at a loss on how to tell these guys I'm moving on. I plan to be honest, but is a phone call to the 'leader' a bit crude? They are moving on so much online stuff etc...and want photos done on Monday...I won't get to meet them all and tell them at once where I'm out of town.
Thoughts?
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IMO it would be most thoughtful to meet face to face with at least one person, preferably the band leader. Failing that, a polite and expressive email to the members.
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Try your best to meet the frontman or bandleader in person if you can't meet with all of them. Phone, mail or email can leave lasting hard feelings.
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Just curious, but is there a certain reason that it has to be strictly one band or the other
as opposed to playing in more than one group?
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Just curious, but is there a certain reason that it has to be strictly one band or the other
as opposed to playing in more than one group?
Yeah...I work a long week - 9-6 everyday. Have a better half, a step son...The 'new' band will be rehearsing 3 times a week, and they are in a top studio in the city in the middle of getting songs recorded etc...I just can't commit to both and it's not fair to anyone at all.
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Keep it simple, keep it short...
If you got on with them on a social level then face-2-face; if not then a phone call is all it needs if it is unlikely you will be seeing them again...
Good luck...
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That IS a tough schedule.
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Well, it's all sorted with no hard feelings..had a meeting this morning with the guy who was driving the band to this point. They were getting ready to email me about it too, and had a guy lined up for tonight for a quiet audition. I'm just glad it's something else that's stressful off my list after losing my best buddy to congestive heart failure.
Hopefully things are looking up.......excited to jam again!