Because it might have to do something with the person he is/became? Just sayin'.
Not entirely sure what there is about Paul Stanley's persona to get worked up about. Always the guy with the still mass-compatible androgyny (yet steadfastly ungay) within Kiss, I find him entirely uncreepy. You can say
"(i) His singing is affected and he yells too much. (ii) He prances around on stage. (iii) And his guitar playing is rudimentary." But other than that? For a person of his fame, his private life has been largely secluded and scandal-free.
And he's very humble.
Weren't you the guy that joked about his use of the word 'okay' in
Love GunI really love you, baby
I love what you've got
Let's get together
We can get hot
No more tomorrow, baby
Time is today
Girl, I can make you feel
Okayas somewhat, well, understated?