"First it was shocking, then it was having a cultural moment, now it’s practically standard in the modern bedroom repertoire—or so a quick scan of any media, from porn to HBO, will tell you. But the reality about anal is not, actually, that everyone’s doing it, says research psychoanalyst and author Paul Joannides, Psy.D., whose comprehensive book on sexuality, The Guide to Getting it On!, is used in college and medical school sex-ed courses across the US and Canada."
While feeling somewhat set back in my own personal experience, I am relieved to find that the LBO - in some quarters wrongly deemed as an abbreviation for "The Lost Butt 'Ole", but I hasten to assure you that this wasn't on Dave's and my mind at all! - has focused on this cultural moment from its, errm, innocent infancy and never really lubed let up with it.